Facts, Friends, and Feelings – the new social currency
Thursday, December 9th, 2010I have been looking at the valuations ascribed to the new social media players and feel like it is the year 2000 all over again.
Cheap money has that effect on activity, but ironically is not (I believe) a long term driver for social media – it is too fungible.
I really admire the ideas behind ThePoint - the idea of facilitating effective group action by helping people find like-minded individuals and giving them the tools to put action behind their feelings is very clever. The currency is Feelings – that is what drives people’s involvement in an social campaign.
Of course Friends is supposed to be the metric that drives Facebook – you join to find and communicate with your Friends. But do people come back time and time again for the Facts about their friends (Joe had a new baby), or the Feelings (Joe had a new baby!!!)?
The most interesting example is dating sites. The early sites were essentially all about Facts (tall blonde, blue eyed, lives in Chicago, and wants kids) and that is still the dominant mode – but eHarmony really make a conscious drive towards “chemistry” in other words – Feelings. The problem being that particularly guys want to browse and that is not the eHarmony way. OKCupid (OKC) has my absolute favourite blog for insight into what people do as opposed to what they say they do. How do they know people’s Feelings? Well through user submitted questions. The clever part is that in order to find out whether your potential new friend likes making out in a graveyard you have to reveal that Fact to the system first. Lots of emotionally biased questions equals a pretty good insight into your Feelings.
So how to get a fact based network to a Feelings based one? That is hard. Clearly when ThePoint evolved into Groupon they left behind the Feelings part and embraced the money motive.
Of course OKC has the problem that after getting people to divulge a huge amount about their inner thoughts and Feelings they then find their soul mate – and leave. Actually they don’t – what is striking is how many profiles stay up after the initial goal has been met because of the community.
So if you are starting a Fact based service – how do you get to Feelings?
Its much harder than getting to money, but if you can do it you have a much more robust offering.